Guys, if you’re going to get into a relationship with a woman, you need to be able to know that she has the potential to love you with all of her heart. If a girl falls for you, then she’s going to give the entirety of herself to you. She is going to love you in ways that no one else ever would. That is why you should never make it a habit of just taking her for granted. You should never be so quick to dismiss her needs or disregard her feelings. When a woman falls in love with you for real, she craves for your charm, wit, thoughtfulness, generosity, and love.
You shouldn’t allow yourself to get sidetracked. You shouldn’t allow yourself to get distracted. She isn’t going to care much about how you look. She isn’t going to care about what kind of money you make. She isn’t going to care about what job you have. What is going to matter for her is whether or not you love her enough to pay attention to the details. There are going to be certain aspects of the relationship which might be unimportant to you but mean the world to her.
Here are some of those things:
1. Listen to her when she talks to you.
Take some time to listen to what she’s saying whenever she talks to you. You always want to make sure that you are paying attention to her and her needs. She still has to feel like she’s being heard.
2. Take her out on real dates.
Make an effort to plan a real date for her. Don’t be content with bringing her to the same restaurant over and over again. Try to put some thought into your dates. Remember that these dates are opportunities for you to bond and stay intimate with one another.
3. Learn to cook for her.
Try to learn how to cook for her. You don’t have to go to any culinary schools. You don’t have to be making the fanciest and most complicated food in the world. You just have to show her that you are willing to do whatever it takes to make her feel comfortable and to care for her.
4. Try out the things that she’s interested in.
Express an interest in the things that she’s most interested in. Make her feel like you are genuinely invested in her life and that you want to immerse yourself in her world a little more. Let her know that you aren’t content with merely watching from the sidelines.
5. Don’t make her feel bad for her choices.
If she’s going to want to watch a chick flick, then let her. If she wants to order a cheeseburger for dinner, then don’t make her feel bad for wanting to do so. It’s always crucial that you make her feel like you support her and not criticize her every step of the way.
6. Clean up after yourself.
Always make it a point to clean up after yourself. You shouldn’t be treating her as if she’s a maid or a servant who cleans up after your messes. You should be mature and independent enough to handle your messes on your own. You can’t keep on relying on her to do these things for you.
7. Respect her boundaries.
Just because the two of you happen to already be in a relationship together doesn’t mean that you are going to be entitled to her in her entirety. She is still her own person with her own boundaries and convictions. You have to be able to respect her individuality and her freedom even if the two of you are already together.
8. Take her out shopping.
You don’t even have to pay for anything. Just go out and be there with her when she goes shopping. When she asks you for advice on what to buy, give your honest opinion. Just let her know that you’re there for her and that you care.
9. Reply to her texts promptly.
Always make sure that you promptly respond to her text messages. You want to make sure that you don’t keep her waiting. If you’re busy, at least reply to her at your soonest convenience. Don’t be thinking that it’s okay for you to not respond to her just because you couldn’t be bothered to do so.
10. Allow yourself to become vulnerable to her.
Allow yourself to open up to her. Let her see who you are. Never make her feel like you’re unwilling to let her in. Always make her feel welcome. Always make her feel like she can count on you to be real and genuine with her even when it’s difficult for you to do so.