She wasn’t looking for a knight. She was looking for a sword. – Atticus
An alpha woman is the new age warrior. Her flare, her elegance, her attitude, the poised sense of self, her kindness – everything is a breathtakingly stunning thing to behold.
While most people are not sure about their direction in life, an alpha woman clearly is a no-nonsense, hardworking, ambitious woman with a sense of purpose and direction in life. They are killing female stereotypes, ever since they have been conceptualized. If you believe that the only place a woman is supposed to be is in the kitchen, an alpha woman is not your cup of coffee!
Once you encounter one of these alpha women, you will either collect your triggered male ego and run to the opposite direction or be forever enraptured by her presence and stay. There’s no in-between with these absolutely wonderful creations of God.
I will give you a luring 8 reasons why an alpha woman is the best partner you can ever have in your life (only if you are ready to accept her the way she is!). Because always remember, she is in charge of herself, knows what she wants and you are not a necessity, you are a cherry on the cake – optional.
Here are the 8 reasons why an alpha woman is the best partner you can ever have:
Can you always count on your partner? Do you believe that your partner will make up for the times you are not at your best?
A relationship entails both the partners to be able to rely on each other, trust each other and be emotionally mature and strong enough to take matters into one’s own responsibility.
Are you both gonna be late from office? Rely on your alpha woman to finish office chores, pick up the kids and also make snacks for you.
She is an extremely well-balanced individual who exudes self-integrity.
Also, stay rest assured that she will keep her promises of sticking with you through thick and thin, as her belief system is as strongly defined as her boundaries.
2. Zero melodrama
An alpha woman doesn’t take the shelter of petty melodrama to consistently fish attention out of you. They neither have the patience, nor the time for that bullshit.
If you have some conflict with her, she would prefer to talk about it and resolve it as soon as possible, instead of dealing with the issue with passive-aggressive techniques.
She doesn’t stoop down enough to hold on to secret grudges against you to use them as grenades in future arguments like, “2 years ago, on 1st March, at 20 hours 30 minutes 23 seconds, you asked me to shut up so we are gonna fight over it today!”
What’s the brownie point she carries home?
You will forget about slamming doors, blame games, guilt trips, and other such manipulative techniques as she will always be transparent with you. Zero drama.
3. Clinginess? Forget about that
You remember right, that she is with you because she wants to be with you, not because she needs you? If you believe that you threatening to leave her will have any effect on her, then you are thoroughly mistaken.
Well, the bitter truth is, she will be equally happy being alone and single as she is with you. She is not desperate to be in a relationship with you hence doesn’t require your constant approval or appreciation to function in life.
She will respect and value your need for personal space and never whine and cry for that extra dose of attention.
4. A constant inspiration
She gives zero F to nonsense, this includes your lame excuses of not being able to pursue your dreams.
If you ever find yourself procrastinating, discouraged, lagging behind, slumping and wanting to give up on yourself, she will be the kick to your demotivated self.
This is not because she loves to exercise control, but because she is a good judge of your potential. She knows what you can achieve and will always keep influencing, challenging and inspiring you to give your best.
5. She will always have your back
Trust on your alpha woman to not scare away from what life throws at you both. Even if the waters get rocky, she will hold on to you, not to cling and bring you down, but to keep you afloat.
If need be she might as well take charge of the situation to get you through a mess she finds you in. Be it any form of crisis – a death in the family, financial, emotional upheaval, illness, she is ready to support you with all her mental strength.
6. Self – Reliant
It’s doubtful that an alpha woman needs any saving. She is always equipped with the ability to save herself. She is the epitome of self-sufficiency.
You would probably never need to pick her up from any weird situation that she has put herself into. Interestingly, maybe at times, she will end up rescuing you from some tricky situations.
She is full of resources to get herself, you and your family through tough situations.
Who doesn’t want a superwoman like that? Break the shackles of stereotypes and know that you need to be occasionally rescued too.
7. Transparent communication and reciprocation
No blocking, no ignoring, no stone-walling, no silent treatment. Only face to face communication.
Your alpha woman knows what she wants and isn’t apprehensive to talk about what makes it happen. Be it her choices of food, or dress or anything at all, she will always express her needs as clearly as possible.
Also, don’t expect her to be that shy damsel in bed. She is a fiercely vocal person and is aware of her needs, even in bed.
But mind you, she isn’t selfish. A relationship is based on mutual gives and takes which she is aware of. If you ask her to reciprocate, know that she will be more than happy to oblige.
With her, you will never wake up one day to find her gone. Like I already mentioned, she possesses the emotional maturity to handle loopholes in the relationship by talking out things with you.
If you ignore her once, she will urge you to sort things out again but don’t forget to show that you are also interested to keep things intact.
She is a person of values and wants things perfectly fine. As trustworthy as she is, you never have to worry about finding her getting touchy-feely with her boss(as she is the boss herself. jk!).
What do you think will be your part here? Yes, you got it right. Just respect that honesty and reciprocate it back. If you break her trust, she will walk out on you and the doors to her heart will be forever closed.
She has chosen you for a reason and beating loneliness and financial difficulties are not among the list. She chose you because she expects you to respect and value the prize that she is.
Never make her regret her choices. She is not someone who would compromise unnecessarily.