YOU’RE INTELLIGENT, HOT BUT SINGLE:
Girl, you know you are a super catch! Am I Right?
You are a beautiful, smart and confident person. But yet, you have trouble finding a man for your ‘happily ever after’. Believe me, it’s not that you have irreparable flaws which make you unattractive.
We all have some flaws and not everyone is perfect. I wish (and I am 100% sure you wish that, too) the world could be perfect and to have everything organized and in its right place.
But when it comes finding a partner, it seems to be very complicated. Our pace of life is so fast that it seems to be becoming more difficult.
The fact that you’re still single even though you know you are an interesting person doesn’t mean that you have some kind of a problem. It’s just about not having enough luck to find that special person and gain his love and attention.
Deep down, I know that you know all of this, but in case you forgot I want to tell you:
Don’t blame yourself; it’s not your fault!
Why am I single?
This is the question you keep asking yourself over and over again. You’re looking for someone who understands you, who is there when you need him, to love and accept you the way you are. These attributes are sometimes difficult to obtain and it’s quite normal that such a person hasn’t shown up YET.
The fact that you are still single doesn’t mean that you have some physical flaws. There are many women who are smart and beautiful, but they just don’t have partners.
Is it then because of your brain and thinking? Perhaps, but it is usually only in cases where people set expectations and criteria which are too high.
A recent study tested the connection between intelligence and perceived attractiveness. The study put men and women together in one room and asked them to take an intelligence test..
After they got their results, men were asked about some of the women—if they found them beautiful and attractive and would they want to go out with them. Men who believed that a woman had got better results than they did show less interest in her.
To be honest, there is no man who doesn’t love the idea of a smart, strong and independent woman, but the problem is they wouldn’t actually date one. Why? Because they would feel threatened. Men like to be gentlemen and feel more powerful. For example, to earn more than their partner.
But girl, you know what?! If you are strong and you have self-esteem, appreciate yourself first and know that the right man will love and appreciate you for just being who you are, no matter how much you work or earn.
Compromise is the essential key to a successful relationship.
Of course, there are intelligent women out there with boyfriends and these women know how much their boyfriends are worth. Even though they might have a great time together, these women are capable of deciding if their partners are worth the work and their attention.
Many women have fears caused by previous bad experiences and think they’re doing something wrong over and over again. It seems like these women are putting a curtain in front of them so as not to be seen by others. And, although they want to find an ideal partner, that fear is what makes them step aside.
Some women simply devote their life to gaining knowledge and making achievements on their business plans. In those cases, they lose their love ways while others decide it’s time to get married. This is the only bad luck for those who have decided that first and foremost is the realization of professional dreams.
Regardless of what you are doing and how good-looking you are, you should know that no men (or anyone for that matter) can make you feel unworthy of love, even if you are very smart and successful in your profession.
Know that everything happens for a reason. You know how much you are worth and that good things come to those who wait. It’s just a matter of time when the right one will knock on your door.
Enjoy your days and do your best damn thing. Believe in your beauty and intelligence. Hang in there and even if you have to be alone, this is your big chance to be happy with yourself until you reach the love which will bring a new form of happiness!